we are one of many, today is the first day of the rest of your life. being disabled has changed my life. I was always on the go, traveling here to there. what I found out was I never stopped to smell the roses. now I have all the time in the world. too bad it took what I am now to enjoy all the little things in life. first few years of being disabled I was kind of in a self pity mood, let me tell you do not play the self mood because it will make things very hard, it will destroy you always tell yourself that things are better because there's people far worse than I am..