This site is terrible. I have no idea how to navigate it and there doesn't seem to be any instructions anywhere. I don't even know if i am posting this in the proper place. i cannot find anyone in my own state to connect with, everyone lives all over the country. I am not wanting to drive 3 or 4 states away for a date! The idea that this site actually wants to charge people for this kind of service is unheard of. What a bunch of crap!